Might be more helpful to actually say in the title that it is Lemmy you’re trying to selfhost, this community isn’t specific to selfhosting Lemmy.

Not anymore according to the update in the pinned comment

Likewise the graph view for obsidian (not foss) or foam (extension for vscode/vscodium) . The graph view is perhaps less useful than the traditional mind map (great if you just want to see connections though) but overall these options are much more powerful

Foam is essentially core Obsidian inside VSCode/VSCodium, no access to plugins etc but there are VSCode plugins you can use as a replacement i.e. GitDocs can replace the Obsidian Git Sync plugin

If you search for comparisons most are pretty outdated now, for example Foam does have a graph view but Obsidian will still pull ahead in terms of features.

The main advantage for me is having everything in one program especially on my work PC where I can’t install Obsidian but I am allowed VSCode.

Looks good but I’ll be sticking with vscodium+foam

My must haves:

• Bitwarden
• Dark reader
• Ublock origin
• Video speed controller