• Twink - a thin, mostly bodyhairless gay man
• Twunk - a muscly, mostly bodyhairless gay man
• Bear - a hairy, thicker gay man
• Otter - a thinner but still hairy gay man
• J/O - jerk off
• Frot - touching two penises together, usually while j/o with each other
• Top - the person who is topping is the person penetrating
• Bottom - same but is instead the person being penetrated
• Verse - likes being both top and bottom
• Side - I’m less familiar with this one but given the quotes and context I’m assuming this is not a top or a bottom or a verse, but instead is someone less interested in penetration and more interested in body contact and j/o together. *